In Washington, the courts use “parenting plans” rather than “child custody” to promote collaboration between parents after a separation. These plans focus on what’s best for the child, covering essential areas like schooling, health and emotional support. The goal is to work together, not fight over who has rights over the child.
Parenting plans consider the child’s growth and health, the family’s lifestyle, and the parent’s work schedules, ensuring that:
It sets clear expectations
Parenting plans provide a clear and structured schedule for the child’s time with each parent. In addition to outlining where the child will live and when, they can also establish a consistent and stable routine crucial for their sense of security and well-being.
It delineates decision-making responsibilities
The parenting plan clearly states who is responsible for making key decisions in the child’s life, such as education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. Doing so prevents potential conflicts by setting out these responsibilities in advance.
It reduces conflict
A parenting plan typically includes mechanisms for conflict resolution, such as mediation or counseling, which can be a first step before taking any disputes to court. This proactive approach to dispute resolution can minimize stress and uncertainty for both the child and the parents.
It is legally enforceable
Parenting plans serve as court orders, meaning both parents are legally bound to adhere to its terms. If one parent does not comply, the other parent has legal recourse to ensure that they follow the plan, which helps maintain consistency and stability for the child.
Clarity is crucial
Divorce can be a turbulent time for any family, especially for the kids. A parenting plan can help establish a sense of stability and structure for everyone.
